Gifts for the Hostess with the Mostess!

If you host is anything like me, she won't want you to bring anything (well, at least that will be her claim).  Just because she's got the pies, and sides covered doesn't mean a small token gift wouldn't be a great show of appreciation!  You never want to show up empty handed, so here are some ideas and tips to get you started!

Keep it simple.  If it's someone's home you've never visited before it's likely you might not know their taste and decorating styles.  A seasonal candle, a floral arrangement, or vase full of potpourri is always a tasteful, and fairly inexpensive item.  Following tradition, wine is always an option (as long as your host is of age, and is offering wine or cocktails during their dinner). 

Keep it convenient.  You want it to be something that your host will be able to use, if not display.  If it's a cousin/aunt/uncle or friend you may want to get something more personal.  If they enjoy cooking you may want to bring an interesting sauce, or oil you found at a specialty shop.  Being so inspired in the kitchen, I love being challenged with a new ingredient and testing it out in the kitchen!  A special holiday decoration piece is also a great option.  With retail stores getting a holiday start earlier and earlier, selections are unlimited (check Hallmark or Target for more traditional items, and Pier One or Christmas Tree Shoppes for more modern and bright pieces). 

Keep it memorable, gifts should trigger a memory.  If it's a close family member getting something sentimental is always a grand gesture.  My favorite gift to give is a coffee table book that really speaks to the host.  Are they really into nature?  Perhaps a book about birds, or a great photo book of local sites might really appeal to them.  If they collect something- like tea cups or baseball cards, this also might be a great stepping stone, perhaps getting a picture frame to showcase their most prized card, or a special tea bag holder for future guests.  I've heard of people getting monogrammed napkins, or dishcloths.  This is such a special and thoughtful gift, every time your host uses it, they will ultimately think of you!

Bringing a gift for a host or hostess can be the ultimate compliment and should follow the three rules above: simple, convenient and memorable and you will be sure to be invited back for the next event!

Stacy Mafera
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